Ok, So try this now - look left or look right. Yes the person out there...
Oh ! Didn't see anyone ? Oh ! So u were looking for happiness in people. Poor you !
SO WHERE DOES HAPPINESS COMES FROM ?
People often don't realise that happiness is something that they already have. So let me explain you here in easy and short points without giving you much pain to read.
# ACCEPTING YOURSELF - yes, accept yourself. Accept your flaws, your weakness. Every person has something best in them, so do u. Try to see the better things in you and try to love them. If u have failed in something so accept it. Forget what people think about you. Their is always a chance. Infact, too many chances. You just have to get up and go for it again. Don't be afraid of failure, it will teach you something better than what others cannot learn. Accept that your nose is upturned , small, long, thin. Accept you look weird. The most important of all is love yourself however you are. Doesn't matter how you look. You are the most beautiful in your own way. So stop worrying. What others have to do with that ?
# FORGIVING - forgiving is nothing but letting your heart and mind to get free from pressure. Did anyone hurt you ??broke your heart ?? bullied you ?? Made you feel the worst ?? Forgive them not because they deserve it ,but beacuse you desreve to be in peace with yourself. Oh come on, now you can't keep thinking about the behavior of someone for like months and years. Let go off your mind.
What if you make someone feel bad and hurt them ??? What is the bloody phone doing in your hand ? Call them ,accept your mistakes and forgive yourself.
# GETTING BUSY - do things that make you happy. Be creative. There are hell lot of things on web to help you out. Do a course online, learn a new language, explore your hobbies etc. There are so many things online for which you don't even have to go out. Imagine you learned so many things, without wasting your time on your silly thoughts, that make you sit and think and makes you do nothing at all.
# NOTE DOWN - note down things you hate about yourself or you have been thinking about. Now after you do that , read it point by point. Ignore all the silly points and for the other points ask yourself - is it really worth that I have been thinking about this for so long ? Im sure your answer is NO. So be glad now, beacuse by this time, at this point of your reading, you have already attained a self confident in you which was lacking in you by the time you noticed this post which you wanted to read to be happy.
Im sure by now, you atleast won't be running to places and people to keep yourself happy and instead you will be seeing a best friend and a helper within you.
I hope my short and easy points on being happy helped you a bit somewhere to make you happy.
Life is good, love it and keep smiling !
Oh ! Didn't see anyone ? Oh ! So u were looking for happiness in people. Poor you !
SO WHERE DOES HAPPINESS COMES FROM ?
People often don't realise that happiness is something that they already have. So let me explain you here in easy and short points without giving you much pain to read.
# ACCEPTING YOURSELF - yes, accept yourself. Accept your flaws, your weakness. Every person has something best in them, so do u. Try to see the better things in you and try to love them. If u have failed in something so accept it. Forget what people think about you. Their is always a chance. Infact, too many chances. You just have to get up and go for it again. Don't be afraid of failure, it will teach you something better than what others cannot learn. Accept that your nose is upturned , small, long, thin. Accept you look weird. The most important of all is love yourself however you are. Doesn't matter how you look. You are the most beautiful in your own way. So stop worrying. What others have to do with that ?
# FORGIVING - forgiving is nothing but letting your heart and mind to get free from pressure. Did anyone hurt you ??broke your heart ?? bullied you ?? Made you feel the worst ?? Forgive them not because they deserve it ,but beacuse you desreve to be in peace with yourself. Oh come on, now you can't keep thinking about the behavior of someone for like months and years. Let go off your mind.
What if you make someone feel bad and hurt them ??? What is the bloody phone doing in your hand ? Call them ,accept your mistakes and forgive yourself.
# GETTING BUSY - do things that make you happy. Be creative. There are hell lot of things on web to help you out. Do a course online, learn a new language, explore your hobbies etc. There are so many things online for which you don't even have to go out. Imagine you learned so many things, without wasting your time on your silly thoughts, that make you sit and think and makes you do nothing at all.
# NOTE DOWN - note down things you hate about yourself or you have been thinking about. Now after you do that , read it point by point. Ignore all the silly points and for the other points ask yourself - is it really worth that I have been thinking about this for so long ? Im sure your answer is NO. So be glad now, beacuse by this time, at this point of your reading, you have already attained a self confident in you which was lacking in you by the time you noticed this post which you wanted to read to be happy.
Im sure by now, you atleast won't be running to places and people to keep yourself happy and instead you will be seeing a best friend and a helper within you.
I hope my short and easy points on being happy helped you a bit somewhere to make you happy.
Life is good, love it and keep smiling !
Wise words :)
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